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Homophobia hurts straight men, too

Opinion - The Christian Science Monitor

 

Homophobia hurts straight men, too

The suicide of college freshman Tyler Clementi painfully spotlights the dire consequences of homophobic bullying on gay men. But a homophobic culture that condemns male affection and emotion as "gay" hurts all men – and our culture at large.

 

 

By Jonathan Zimmerman / October 6, 2010

New York

In the 1986 movie Stand By Me, an adult protagonist – played by Richard Dreyfuss – looks back wistfully on the friendships he formed in his youth. “I never had any friends later on like the ones I had when I was twelve,” he muses. “Does anyone?”

 

For most American men, the sad answer is “no.” In surveys, men report that they rarely sustain intimate, long-standing friendships with other males after childhood. And the reason might surprise you: According to a large body of research, they’re afraid of being seen as gay.

I thought of this research as I read about the death of Tyler Clementi, the Rutgers University freshman who jumped off the George Washington Bridge after a roommate secretly filmed Clementi’s sexual encounter with another man and posted the clip online. Clementi died by himself, but he wasn’t alone: Since the school term began in September, three other adolescent boys around the country also committed suicide following taunts from classmates about their sexual orientation.

In response, gay and lesbian groups called on schools to institute more stringent protections for gay students. Even Secretary of Education Arne Duncan got in on the act, attributing these “unnecessary tragedies” to the “trauma” of homophobic bullying. “This is a moment where every one of us . . . needs to stand up and speak out against intolerance in all its forms.”

A longstanding problem – for all

He’s right, of course. But to fight intolerance against gay boys, we also need to acknowledge its toll on straights – and our entire culture. Homophobia hurts all of our boys, by driving a wedge between them. Sharing your deepest feelings with another man? That’s so . . . gay. Or so we’ve been taught.

And we’ve known about this problem for a long time. In the early 1980s, observing hundreds of elementary-school boys, sociologists Barrie Thorne and Zella Luria noticed that kindergarteners and first-graders hugged, joined arms, and held hands. But by fifth grade, boys had forsaken these customs in favor of mock violence – poking, pushing, and shoving – or ritual gestures like high-fives.

Why? As they got closer to puberty, the boys began to use homophobic epithets – homo, queer, and especially fag – to demean each other. So they couldn’t risk bringing those labels onto themselves. “As ‘fag’ talk increases, relaxed and cuddling patterns of touch decrease,” Thorne and Luria wrote. “The tough surface of boys’ friendships is no longer like the gentle touching of girls.”

 

And it’s not just physical intimacy that decreases, of course. Other scholars watched teenaged boys at the movies, where they often sat apart even if they came in together. Most of all, they avoided showing their emotions to each other. Even at a tear-jerk movie, it seems, boys aren’t supposed to cry. That’s “gay,” too.

Male affection used to be ok

It wasn’t always that way. In the nineteenth century, American men declared their love for each other in fiction, poetry, and song. And you can see it in photographs from the period, as well, which show men posing in physical embrace – sharing a chair, holding hands.

All of that began to change in the early 20th century, when new fears of “feminization” started to drive men apart. As America urbanized, the argument went, men were losing the rough-hewn virtues of the old frontier. So educators began to emphasize competitive sports, especially football, which would restore the nation’s endangered masculinity. And they also warned about “sissies” or “fairies,” which in turn led men to turn away from each other.

During World War II, as the historian John Ibson has shown, American military men would enjoy a brief revival of the old intimacies. Thrown together on ships or in foreign countries, they celebrated male camaraderie in ways that might shock us today. Consider “My Buddy,” a popular song of the era, in which one soldier mourns the absence of the other:

Nights are long since you went away

I think about you all through the day

Miss your voice, the touch of your hand

I long to know that you’ll understand

My buddy, my buddy

Your buddy misses you

A new homophobia

But these patterns would disappear in the 1950s, when a new homophobia stalked the land. In Congress, Joseph McCarthy and other red-baiters argued that gay men were often Communists as well. Psychologists warned against overprotective mothers, whose worries and anxieties would supposedly render their sons into homosexuals.

The boys heard the message, of course, distancing themselves from each other. And you can hear the message still, at any school or playground, where they call each other homo, fag, or queer. That hurts the gay kids most of all, as the awful death of Tyler Clementi reminds us. But it hurts the rest of us, too, by limiting the ways that men can act and feel. And that’s bad news for all American men, and for anyone – male or female – who loves them.

Jonathan Zimmerman teaches history and education at New York University. He is the author of “Small Wonder: The Little Red Schoolhouse in History and Memory.”

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A Holy moment in the Big City



 

Kwadjo Boaitey

Reprinted from the  Christian Science Sentinel.

 

One of my favorite Christmas memories takes me back to a New York City street, far away from the sweet-smelling, familial Christmas celebrations of 

my youth.  I was in my mid-20s, living in New York and making good on a dream to become an actor. I met and became friends with a teenager called Josh (not his real name) in Manhattan’s West Village. We worked together at a local restaurant. Josh’s parents had passed away a number of years earlier.  At just 14 years of age, he lived in his own apartment next door to his grandmother, and the two of them were barely making ends meet.

 

Josh was a bright, energetic young man with a great sense of humor. We shared an affinity for heavy-metal rock music. As grown up as his life appeared to be, I could tell he desperately needed someone he could talk to. I enjoyed being around him and did my best to be like a thoughtful big brother.  



We’d been buddying around for a few years, when I had an opportunity to travel overseas. Josh and I corresponded with each other intermittently while I was away, but when I returned, friends told me it would be a good idea to stay away from him. His grandmother had passed away, and he’d started living on the streets. Josh had become a junkie, addicted to heroin, and a thief. I was warned that I wouldn’t recognize him and that I shouldn’t give him my home or work address or phone number.

 

As I kept walking, trying to make sense of it all, something said, “Go back.”

 

Hearing this news broke my heart. I couldn’t help but feel as if I’d let Josh down in some way. I thought about him often.  



A year or so later, I was walking in the East Village with some friends, and we passed by a young man asking for change. Instantly, I recognized him. It was Josh.  



I’m unable to describe the anguish I felt—seeing someone with so much promise, someone I loved, on the streets, homeless, dirty, covered with sores, begging. As I kept walking, trying to make sense of it all, praying and listening for what I should do or how I should think, something said, “Go back.”

 

So I left my friends and doubled back to the corner where Josh was standing. I called out to him. He looked at me and smiled. In that moment I wasn’t impressed by his physical condition or our gritty surroundings. It was his smile that got me. In it I could see the real Josh—spiritual qualities of joy, intelligence, love. I realized right then that Josh’s God-given identity was perfectly intact.

 

We sat on the curb and talked for hours. And our reunion wasn’t full of guilt, pity, judgment, or blame—just love. I believe, in those moments, that God was informing us both of who we really were, innocent and reflecting the Divine.  



Two weeks later, I received a call from Josh, telling me that he’d met a wonderful girl. She too had been living on the streets but had decided it was time for her to go home to her family. She’d asked if Josh wanted to go with her, and he’d accepted.

 

I continued receiving progress reports from Josh before I left New York City.

 

That Christmas, Josh’s girlfriend called to thank me for being his friend. She told me that his whole life had turned around the day he saw me again on that street corner. She kept saying, “You changed his life.” But I knew what actually had changed Josh’s life was the Christ.

 

In Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures, Mary Baker Eddy wrote: “Christ is the true idea voicing good, the divine message from God to men speaking to the human consciousness. . . . the divine image and likeness, dispelling the illusions of the senses; the Way, the Truth, and the Life, healing the sick and casting out evils, destroying sin, disease, and death.” I believe Josh had glimpsed the purity, love, and intelligence he reflects as the image and likeness of God. I believe this renewed view of himself, of who he was, changed him.

 

I continued receiving progress reports from Josh before I left New York City a number of years ago. He moved upstate, found meaningful work, and maintained his own apartment. For me, the greatest report was his renewed belief in himself and life.

Reflecting on that unexpected meeting with Josh, and the blessed Christmas news that followed, I learned that absolutely nothing can prevent us from waking up to our identity as children of God.

 

Expressing the Christ:

Science and Health:

332:9-15 Christ

King James Bible:

Luke 10:30-37 A

The Devil’s Auction


 

The Devil’s Auction

 

It was once announced that the Devil was going out of business and would offer his tools for sale to whoever would pay his price. On the night of the sale, they were all attractively displayed, and a bad-looking lot they were. Malice, envy, hatred, jealousy, carnality, deceit, and all the other implements of evil were spread out, each marked with its price. Apart from the rest lay a harmless looking, wedgeshapred tool, much worn and priced higher than th others.

 

 

Someone asked the Devil what it was, “That’s discouragement,” was the reply.

 

 

“Well, why do you have it priced so high?”

 

“Because,” replied the Devil, “it is more useful to me than any of the others. I can pry open and get inside a person’s consciousness with that when I couldn’t get near with any of the others, and when once inside, I can use the person in whatever way suits me best. It is so much worn because I use it with nearly everybody, as very few people yet know that it belongs to me.”


"You say you use this wedge of discouragement with nearly everybody. With whom can’t you use it?”

 

The Devil hesitated a long time and finally said in a low voice, “I can’t use it in getting into the consciousness of a grateful person.”

Our Innate Happiness

Emergence International

25 October 2009

Key West, Florida


“Our Innate Happiness”


Introduction

Writing to the Christian Scientists at First Church in New York, Mrs. Eddy made this provocative statement:  “As an active portion of one stupendous whole, goodness identifies man with universal good. Thus may each member of this church rise above the oft-repeated inquiry, What am I? to the scientific response:  I am able to impart truth, health, and happiness, and this is my rock of salvation and my reason for existing.” (My 165:16)

Two things stand out in this passage.  First, I love the fact that each of us is identified as an Active portion of one stupendous whole, and that each of us is identified with universal good.  Secondly, Mrs. Eddy defines our nature and mission.  We are able to impart “truth, health, and happiness.”  Periodically I’ve wondered about that selection — truth, health, and happiness – why not truth, health, & holiness, for example, and I haven’t really come up with a compelling answer.  But because it’s unexpected, it does give me pause, and I enjoy thinking about the possibilities.  If we’re able to impart happiness, it stands to reason we must have some clue about what it is we’re imparting!

This afternoon, we’ll look at happiness from several different vantage points and see, how, from the perspective of Christian Science, our pursuit and acknowledgement of happiness is a guide to our spiritual progress.

Happiness is defined in part as “characterized by or indicative of pleasure, contentment, or joy; favored by fortune; fortunate or lucky: a happy, fruitful land;  apt or felicitous… Synonyms include  joyous, joyful, blithe, cheerful, merry, contented, gay, blissful, satisfied, favorable, propitious; successful, prosperous.

More often than not, happiness is thought to depend on circumstances outside of one’s self, circumstances over which one may or may not have control.  Seen from the lens of Christian Science, however, happiness is an innate characteristic of creation, a characteristic that permeates and defines the whole of the divine order.  

The basis of our happiness and joy – divine nature

Mrs. Eddy asks, in the chapter on Recapitulation in Science and Health, 

“What is God?”  And then she answers, “God is incorporeal, divine, supreme, infinite Mind, Spirit, Soul, Principle, Life, Truth, Love.”  Where, in that infinite divine supremacy, is there the option of sadness, lack, disease, or loneliness?  I don’t see it.  Do you?

We’re told repeatedly in the first chapter of Genesis that “God saw everything that he had made, and behold, it was very good.”  God had just finished creating man in His image, and blessing him, instructing him to be fruitful and multiply.  Do you think that was supposed to be an onerous task?  Somehow I don’t think so.  In fact, I think God intended just the opposite for His/Her creation:  that that creation would be joyous, joyful, supplied with everything necessary, and perennially happy.  That means you and me.

A number of years ago a good friend of mine shared a condensation with me which I’ve never forgotten.  You will be familiar with the original:

“The sinless joy, — the perfect harmony and immortality of Life, possessing unlimited divine beauty and goodness without a single bodily pleasure or pain, constitutes the only veritable, indestructible man, whose being is spiritual.   (76:22-26)

Well, the condensation went like this:  “…Joy…constitutes…man.”  I’ve never been able to read or think about this passage in quite the same way!  Partially because it’s one of those paragraph-long sentences that Mrs. Eddy delights in, and because the condensation made it a whole lot more graspable.  But more so, because it gave me a different way of identifying my being.  Joy – the sinless joy, the perfect harmony of Life, possessing unlimited divine beauty and goodness without a single bodily pleasure or pain, constitutes your being, constitutes my being.  Happiness and joy are innate to our being because they are innate to God’s divine being and because we are His/Her image/manifestation.  


The spiritual vs. the material basis of happiness

Central to what we’re establishing today is the fact that happiness is independent of human circumstances, situations, aptitudes, events.  Our Leader makes just this point when she says, “Happiness is spiritual, born of Truth and Love.  It is unselfish; therefore it cannot exist alone, but requires all mankind to share it.”  “For true happiness,” she says, “man must harmonize with his Principle, divine Love; the Son must be in accord with the Father, in conformity with Christ.  According to divine Science, man is in a degree as perfect as the Mind that forms him.  The truth of being makes man harmonious and immortal, while error is mortal and discordant.”  (S&H 337:7)  Based on her own experiences and proofs, she could also write, “All power and happiness are spiritual and proceed from goodness,”  (Mis 155:4-5) and “Joy is self-sustained; goodness and blessedness are one…” (Mis 209:26-27)

But as we know, it doesn’t always seem that way.  There are those little foxes that would spoil the vine:  all the subtle and not so subtle arguments that happiness is mortal, not spiritual, that health is defined by the body and is not the native state of man – that it is more prone to disease than wellness – that income is matter-based, limited and insufficient, rather than divine and infinite, that companionship is mia, that our relationships are fraught with tension and discord, or that the conditions of our lives can lead to misery instead of beauty.  The problem comes, it would seem, from where we’re looking for happiness.  Mrs. Eddy defines the problem this way:

    The so-called laws of matter are nothing but false beliefs that intelligence and life are present where Mind is not. These false beliefs are the procuring cause of all sin and disease.   The opposite truth, that intelligence and life are spiritual, never material, destroys sin, sickness, and death. 

   The fundamental error lies in the supposition that man is a material outgrowth and that the cognizance of good or evil, which he has through the bodily senses, constitutes his happiness or misery.    (S&H 171:25-2)

Too often, we’re looking to what our senses tell us for our happiness (or our misery).  And more often than not, those senses try to convince us that life and intelligence are separate from divine Mind.  In fact, almost everything around us tries to convince us that life is material, not spiritual, or at best, a combination of the two.  But our Leader identifies all these as beliefs, only, beliefs which we can refute and replace.  She advises us:

If we look to the body for pleasure, we find pain; for Life, we find death; for Truth, we find error; for Spirit, we find its opposite, matter. Now reverse this action.  Look away from the body into Truth and Love, the Principle of all happiness, harmony, and immortality. Hold thought steadfastly to the enduring, the good, and the true, and you will bring these into your experience proportionably to their occupancy of your thoughts.  (S&H 260:31)

Man’s inseparability from God 

Jesus gives us a great example of what it means to “hold thought steadfastly to the enduring, the good, and the true…”  One of the statements I’ve always enjoyed says this about him:  

The real Christ was unconscious of matter, of sin, disease, and death, and was conscious only of God, of good, of eternal Life, and harmony. Hence the human Jesus had a resort to his higher self and relation to the Father, and there could find rest from unreal trials in the conscious reality and royalty of his being, — holding the mortal as unreal, and the divine as real. It was this retreat from material to spiritual selfhood which recuperated him for triumph over sin, sickness, and death. Had he been as conscious of these evils as he was of God, wherein there is no consciousness of human error, Jesus could not have resisted them; nor could he have conquered the malice of his foes, rolled away the stone from the sepulchre, and risen from human sense to a higher concept than that in which he appeared at his birth. (No 36:12-4)

In the parlance of some modern tv shows, Jesus had a lifeline.  He could call upon his understanding of divine reality to help him work through whatever challenges appeared to be at hand.  He always had recourse the reality and royalty of his being.  We, too, have a lifeline.  We, too, have recourse to the reality and royalty of our own nature.  In fact, there are numerous instances throughout the Bible and Mrs. Eddy’s writings where we are assured of that spiritual reality and royalty of our being.  Being conscious of our spiritual, divine nature as God’s image and likeness and of our inseparability from God, we are able to contradict any false belief that argues we’re less than whole, entirely happy.

Working out our own salvation

Notwithstanding that lifeline, Jesus had to work out his own salvation, and he insisted that his followers do the same.  Jesus said, “If ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in my love; even as I have kept my Father’s commandments, and abide in his love.”  (John 15:10)  Mrs. Eddy comes at the same idea from a slightly different vantage point when she says, “…obedience is the test of love; … one gladly obeys when obedience gives him happiness.”  (’02 17:3-5)  Later in the same article she says, “Happiness consists in being and in doing good; only what God gives, and what we give ourselves and other through His tenure, confers happiness:  conscious worth satisfies the hungry heart, and nothing else can.”  (’02 17:22-25)  

I was struck, reading through a number of citations having to do with happiness, that there are two areas of obedience.  The first has to do with keeping our thoughts focused and consistent.  Mrs. Eddy:  “If you wish to be happy, argue with yourself on the side of happiness; take the side you wish to carry, and be careful not to talk on both sides, or to argue stronger for sorrow than for joy.  You are the attorney in the case, and will win or lose according to your plea.”  (Healing 10:13)  Throughout Jesus’ words and Mrs. Eddy’s writings there are a number of similar exhortations for us to guard thought, hold thought, watch thought, be consistent in acknowledging divine perfection in our prayers and our actions.  

This type of focus is illustrated in the story of Hannah.  The wife of Elkanah, Hannah had no children, a fact made all the more bitter because Elkanah’s first wife, Peninnah,  had numerous children.  The story indicates that Hannah was clearly unhappy about the situation.  But she took her desire to the Lord, confident that the Lord would provide an answer.  Even before the physical manifestation changes, her thought had changed – she was reassured that God had heard her, and she left the temple content.  In fact, the story concludes:  “So the woman went her way, and did eat, and her countenance was no more sad.” (1 Sam 1:18).


The second has to do with living consistently with what we understand to be the nature of reality.  Here again Christ Jesus and Mrs. Eddy have walked the path before us, and pointed out some of the markers.  In Miscellaneous Writings, Mrs. Eddy says, “

Self-ignorance, self-will, self-righteousness, lust, covetousness, envy, revenge, are foes to grace, peace, and progress; they must be met manfully and overcome, or they will uproot all happiness. Be of good cheer; the warfare with one’s self is grand; it gives one plenty of employment, and the divine Principle worketh with you, — and obedience crowns persistent effort with everlasting victory. Every attempt of evil to harm good is futile, and ends in the fiery punishment of the evil-doer.  

    Jesus said, "Not that which goeth into the mouth defileth a man; but that which cometh out of the mouth, this defileth a man." If malicious suggestions whisper evil through the mind’s tympanum, this were no apology for acting evilly. We are responsible for our thoughts and acts; and instead of aiding other people’s devices by obeying them, — and then whining over misfortune, — rise and overthrow both. If a criminal coax the unwary man to commit a crime, our laws punish the dupe as accessory to the fact. Each individual is responsible for himself. 

    Evil is impotent to turn the righteous man from his uprightness. The nature of the individual, more stubborn than the circumstance, will always be found arguing for itself, — its habits, tastes, and indulgences. This material nature strives to tip the beam against the spiritual nature; for the flesh strives against Spirit, — against whatever or whoever opposes evil, — and weighs mightily in the scale against man’s high destiny. (Mis 118:21-17 np)

Here again we have the assurance, that even if the challenges seem real, we have recourse to the divine nature of being.  Mrs. Eddy reminds us that,

    Theoretically and practically man’s salvation comes through "the riches of His grace" in Christ Jesus. Divine Love spans the dark passage of sin, disease, and death with Christ’s righteousness, — the atonement of Christ, whereby good destroys evil, — and the victory over self, sin, disease, and death, is won after the pattern of the mount. This is working out our own salvation, for God worketh with us, until there shall be nothing left to perish or to be punished, and we emerge gently into Life everlasting. This is what the Scriptures demand — faith according to works. (’01 10:19)

Happiness comes from serving others

The importance of establishing and defending our own happiness is two-fold.  Going back to the statement I quoted at the outset, a knowledge of spiritual reality and our relationship to that reality allows us to “…impart truth, health, and happiness…” to ourselves and to others.  Both Christ Jesus and Mrs. Eddy expected their followers to be healers, and the call is as imperative today as it was 100 years ago or 2,000 years ago.  Mrs. Eddy talks about the extraordinary fact that Jesus words and works were committed to a dying language, and yet they haven’t died – they have been a vital, animating, illuminating force for redemption and regeneration for more than two millennia.  Similarly, I’m often amused, and humbled, when I look out on the crowd at a Sunday service, that the power and majesty of Christian redemption has been entrusted to such a motley crew.  Not unlike Gideon and the 300, it sometimes feels as though those who are committed to spiritual living and healing are part of a very small group.  But like Elijah, who thought he was alone in Israel standing for God when God told him that, no, there were 7,000 left in Israel, we are part of a larger group.  And the importance of our work for ourselves and for others is that it is bringing to light spiritual reality.

That reality isn’t something far off or remote, and God isn’t some distant, anthropomorphic being outside of ourselves.  No, Jesus told us that the kingdom of heaven is within.  Already.  Each of us is divine, here now today.  Each of us has full access to the spiritual reality and royalty of our being.  And as we hold to that, we will see our lives, and the lives of those around us, take on more and more of the divine hues.  

Happiness – guide to spiritual growth

Part of what’s fun for me about studying Christian Science is that I’m always finding provocative statements and provocative insights in our Leader’s writings, in Christ Jesus’ words and works, in the history and experiences of other Christian Scientists.  This is another statement, from our Leader’s autobiography Retrospection and Introspection, that jumped off the page with an arresting freshness the other day:  “To becloud mortals, or for yourself to hide from God, is to conspire against the blessings otherwise conferred, against your own success and final happiness, against the progress of the human race as well as against honest metaphysical theory and practice.”  (Ret 78:21)  We don’t want to be found conspiring against blessings already conferred, against our own success and happiness, against the progress of the human race, or against honest metaphysical theory and practice.  On the contrary, the demand and the opportunity for each of us in this room today is to claim and to demonstrate that spiritual reality.  

Mrs. Eddy continues a little later on in that same work, 

   A realization of the shifting scenes of human happiness, and of the frailty of mortal anticipations, — such as first led me to the feet of Christian Science, — seems to be requisite at every stage of advancement. Though our first lessons are changed, modified, broadened, yet their core is constantly renewed; as the law of the chord remains unchanged, whether we are dealing with a simple Latour exercise or with the vast Wagner Trilogy. 

The lessons we’re learning about human happiness are truly guides to our spiritual progress.  “Progress is the law of God,” our Leaders assures us, “and demands of us only what we can certainly fulfill.”  (S&H 233:7)  As we work out our own salvation, find that here and now the rich resources, contentment, and vitality of spiritual living are already ours, we will be ascending in the scale of Christian demonstration.  And we’ll find that in fact, we’ve always been at that point of spiritual expression.  We then find, that “when the real is attained, which is announced by Science, joy is no longer a trembler, nor is hope a cheat.”  (S&”H 289:19-20)

“Loyal Christian Scientists, be of good cheer:  the night is far spent, the day dawns, God’s universal kingdom will appear, Love will reign in every heart, and His will be done on earth as in heaven.” (Mrs. Eddy’s conclusion to her article, “Thy Will Be Done” in Mis).

May we all go forward today strengthened, inspired, convinced of the inexorable happiness of our being.

 

Letter from Mary Baker Eddy to Adam Dickey

Letter from Mary Baker Eddy to Adam H. Dickey

The place you seek is seeking you, the place you need is needing you. Divine Principle brings need and supply together for mutual good. God wisely, intelligently, and lovingly controls, guides, protects, prospers, and blesses this union of His idea (man) and this joyous activity, work.

All that you need to do is to see that your consciousness is fully prepared, enlarged, uplifted, joyous, expectant of infinite good, so that no sense of limitation may hinder the full manifestation of God’s will for His idea. You know that God’s will for His idea is perfection, nothing less. All we need ever to change is our sense of discord to the consciousness of harmony, divine government.

Who says, "I have finished my work and must find another place"? God alone directs and outlines. You do not know whether it is right to stay here or to go there except as the steps are put before you day by day. Even if your desires are in line with progress, you must surrender all human will. There must be no personal sense, no material planning, no expression of such falsehood. All is patience, calm obedience, because God is all-in-all, and God is everywhere. All is quiet, loving, scientific harmony. God is right where you are. Stand still and lift your vision. There is no human tyrant, no cruelty, no temper, no lust, no greed, no injustice, no self-righteousness anywhere to personify such claims to distress, to oppress, or hold you down. "God’s being is infinite freedom, harmony, and boundless bliss."(S&H 481:4), and you reflect God. Work for a consciousness of harmonious activity and clear away all sense of person, either good or bad, and know that you serve the Lord, the Christ, and know that nothing can hinder, delay or limit this God-directed, God-protected, and God-placed activity.

We cannot change environment. We can only change our sense of environment and we can never do this in any way but through the elevation of our own thought about things.. God is the only environment. We have to clear our own vision, sweep away the rubbish of fear, impatience, and a false estimate of our fellow man and know that the one Mind shines through and governs all.

You do not have to plan or think how, when, or where. That is God’s business. Your business is to carefully reflect, listen and obey when the call comes. The Divine will is always clearly calling to US and telling us of the will of the Father. But we are so bent on having our own way and "doing thing." instead of knowing they are already done, that half the time we do not know what God is saying. God’s will will be intelligently expressed and will intelligently meet your need by destroying your sense of fear. You really have no needs for you are complete in God.

God is thinking and you reflect God’s thoughts. God is working – and nothing else. God is outlining and not one "can stay His hand" or say, ‘What doest Thou?". God will tell you what to do about your work. He will unfold each step. So don’t get worried, anxious or impatient. He has infinite good in store for you. Just work to know that Divine Mind builds up, unifies, holds together and prospers.

The Divine and perfect law of adjustment, operating through the ever present law of attraction is bringing to you all that belongs to you.

Realize for yourself daily, more than once, that the fields are already "white to the harvest", that "Divine Love always has met and always will meet every human need", (S&H p.494) the need of work as well as any other, that there is plenty of work for all, that yours belongs to you directly, and do not for one moment let the sense of lack stay with you. It is rank error and breeds all sorts of disease and difficulty.

It does not take time for you to build up your place of your work, for it is impossible for an idea to be without its place, and that place is fully developed as is the idea that fills it. The place must meet all the needs of the idea if it is to be provided by Divine Principle.

God is abundance and supplies all and only abundance. Mental malpractice, error, cannot impoverish you mentally, spiritually, physically or financially. The demonstration of this is an abundance of Life, Truth, and Love. Also intelligence for all your material needs. 

First of all, we must know that Principle and not man does the placing. Paul says, "For in Him we live and move and have our being." This knowing that man, God’s idea, is already in his right place does the healing work, for that place is in Mind right now, and therefore the need is already supplied by Divine Love.

Dwelling in this consciousness will bring into human experience that which we need, whether it be a home or any good thing, because this state of consciousness excludes everything wrong, such as mortal verdicts of overcrowded conditions, no good places, fear, indecision, lack, etc. and renders them null and void, and then the facts being on the right side, you find your need supplied. Just refuse to accept man-made verdicts as your own opinions or thinking. Know that all your thoughts come from Divine Mind and the true thoughts dispel any beliefs of evil about place, etc. and their seeming effects go with them. It is right for you to be with your own kind of people and trusting God with all your heart will open the right way. There is no place for failure where God is, and He is right with you every minute. Remember, Divine Mind has infinite resources with which to bless. Do not limit yourself in any way.

There is no law of malicious malpractice acting through any personality, condition, or circumstance that can hinder or obstruct, for an instant, the perfect and complete manifestation of God’s place for you here and now. (Read M.W. p.270).

The Divine and perfect law of adjustment, working through the universal and ever-present law of attraction is bringing you that which belongs to you. "Oh, Lord! Give us higher, holier, purer, self-abnegated motives, desires and spiritual inspiration." 

Make a place for God in your thinking and acting, and your place in human experience will be manifested. Did you but know the sublimity of your hope, the infinite capacity of your being, the grandeur of your outlook, you would let error kill itself. Error comes to you for life and you give it all the life it has.

There is no channel, personal or impersonal, through which or by which, animal magnetism, either malicious or willful, sympathetic or ignorant, conscious or unconscious, can touch Christian Science, its Discoverer, its adherents, or their activities.

Today, Divine Mind adjusts me to my work and adjusts my work to me. Under this law of adjustment – God’s law – my work must be successful. Through steadfast declaration, work and worker, buyer and seller, are brought together. Thus, supply meets demand and God’s perfect law is brought into manifestation.


(We understand that Mr. Dickey, who was very close to Mrs. Eddy in her last years here, kept this letter for seven years, pondering its message and learning its meaning, before he wrote the article, "God’s Law of Adjustment".)

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Sing a new song! written by Mark – Emergence International brother/member


Sing a new song!

Why are you walking down that same old road?
Why are you carrying that heavy load?
See, see, see the Light of God!

Yes see, see, see the Light of God.
Drop your burden and see like Him
Pick up your peace and see like Him
Yes see like Him,
Yes pick up your peace and see like Him.

What do you do when your life is hard?
When you feel your life is torn and marred?
Be, be, be the Light of God!

Yes be, be, be the Light of God.
Drop your sadness and be like Him
Pick up your joy and be like Him
Yes be like Him
Yes pick up your joy and be like Him

What do you do when you’re out of control?
What do you do just to feel your soul?
Feel, feel, feel the Light of God!

Yes feel, feel, feel the Light of God!
Drop your failures and feel His wholeness
Pick up your power and feel His wholeness
Yes feel His wholeness
Yes pick up your power and feel His wholeness.

Yes, see like Him
And see His peace.

Yes, be like Him
And be His joy.

Yes, feel like Him
And feel His power.

And every day will dawn brand new
His peace and joy and power are you.

- by Mark from the Christian Science Society of Encinitas, Ca.

http://christianscience92024.com/2010/06/24/232/ 

Beautiful Savior – written by Mark – EI brother/member


Beautiful Saviour

Deep from His Spirit,
Pure from His Soul,
Our beautiful Saviour
Is making us whole.

He loves us completely.
He cures us of shame.
He sees His reflection.
He knows us by name.

Oh beautiful Saviour
So pure and so bright!
You make us Your likeness
We live as Your Light.

Freed and forgiven
You’ve paid all our debts
You’ve cured us of sorrow
Healed fear and regret.

Oh beautiful Saviour
We live through Your Life
We’re safe in Your Love
We’re free from all strife.

So stir us to action!
And teach us to heal.
Your Light must be lived!
Your Love be revealed!

Oh beautiful Saviour
Adorable One
You’re everpresent
You’re Kingdom is come.

We love and we thank You!
We stand in Your might.
Made whole in Your likeness
We shine as Your Light!

 

by Mark from the Christian Science Society of Encinitas, Ca.

http://christianscience92024.com/2010/06/24/232/ 

 

MAP – written by Mark – EI brother/member


Map

Begin Here.

Not there in the mirey clay of “where you came from”
Not there in the cloudy doubt of “where you are going”

but Here
Here on solid ground.

Begin Now.

Let go of that ancient millstone history;
Let go of that phoney lodestone future.

Begin Now
Now is solid ground.

“This is the way, walk ye in it”
says the voice of God.

“That was the way, too bad you missed it”
says the Liar.

“Now is the day of salvation”
says the voice of God.

“Someday, if you get lucky, maybe you’ll be happy”
says the Liar.

The Liar is future tense anxiety past tense anguish
God speaks present tense “I love you”

But how do you know you are here?
Be still, and feel:

Here
  is where Love loves you

Here
  is where Truth speaks your name

Here
  is where Spirit sings you a lullaby.

Right here is where you always are

How do you find now?
Be still, and listen:

Now
  is when Mind accepts you

Now
  is when Soul sings YES to you

Now
  is when Life’s arms hold you

Right now is when you always be

And being, suddenly you find your feet
on the holy ground of Principle.

And you know:
  This — right now! — is the best time of your life.
  This — right here! — is the best place to be.

  There is no lie to fight
  Only thought to change

  So accept God is with you *here*
  Rejoice God loves you *now*

  Right where you are.

So take off those stiff shoes
and toss those cursed fig leaves
of cheated past and incurable future.

And, having nothing between
you and your Father-Mother God.

Look up!
Up there!

There’s a Rainbow smiling over your head

Look down!
Right there!

There’s solid Rock under your feet

And look around!
All around!

You actually already are God’s perfect child!

 – Here and Now.

by Mark from the Christian Science Society of Encinitas, Ca.

http://christianscience92024.com/2010/06/24/232/ 

 

 

The Economics of Love – written by Mark – Emergence International brother and member


The Economics of Love 

It was a hot May afternoon and I was sitting in my last class of my senior year at UC Davis. Our professor had walked us through all the permutations of urban economics. I’d finished the examinations, written my last blue book, and was, like my fellow students, expecting a fairly low-key final lecture. And indeed it started off that way.

Then our professor surprised us.

He said, “I’ve talked with you all quarter about the impact of economics on people, about how it can form and move them, about how Adam Smith’s concept of the “invisible hand” of self-interest can work. But now, in this last lecture, I want to talk with you about something more radical. It isn’t the economics of self-interest. It is the economics of love.”

And he then proceeded to unveil a vision of an economy based on selfless interest, based on giving and sharing, based on mutual love and concern for one’s fellow beings. This was not your typical textbook lecture. It also was not the “from each according to his ability, to each according to his need” Marxism. It was something different. Something spiritually centered. Something based on the Golden Rule.

Some students snickered. Many of us squirmed a little in our seats. But he persisted. And he made us think about economics in completely a new way. For me, it was the best lecture of the year. And I don’t know if that professor ever realized how much I’ve pondered what he said that hot afternoon, now so long ago.

For me now, it brings to mind two different Bible stories that I think illustrate the point he was making.

First is the story from 1st Chronicles that tells how all the people gave joyfully and willingly to fund the building of the first Temple in Jerusalem. King David then said, “…who am I, and what is my people, that we should be able to offer so willingly after this sort? For all things come of thee, and of thine own have we given thee.” (1 Chron 29: 14)

This is a fundamental recognition that all the good we have has its source in God. When we give of that goodness, we are really sharing what God has given us. And He gives us of His goodness without measure. As Psalm 23 says, “my cup runneth over.” All the good we ever see, experience, or embody is His to begin with. He gives it to us, expresses it through us, so that we, as His children, can share it with each other.

This is basic to understanding the economics of Love. And it is illustrated beautifully in the next story.

A religious expert approached Jesus, and quizzed him on what it meant to “love your neighbor as yourself.” (Luke 10:27) So Jesus told him a story about a traveler who falls victim to violence. Jesus tells of two “righteous” people who could have helped, but instead chose not to. Then, a Samaritan – someone considered an outcast, “unrighteous,” at the time – comes along. And he actually “got his hands dirty,” and went down to where the traveler was, patched him up and helped him to a safe place where he paid for the traveler’s care. The Samaritan helped him well beyond just what was necessary. You could say he went the extra mile.

Jesus then asked the legal expert which of the passersby seemed to him to be the true neighbor to the traveler. “The man who gave him practical sympathy,’ he replied. ‘Then you go and give the same,’ returned Jesus.” (JB Phillips, Luke 10)

Jesus was making a vital point about the economics of Love: God gives us all the love we have ever known, felt, or expressed. Just as King David acknowledged all the rich goodness he and his people were happily giving belonged to God, we can rejoice that when we give love by sharing it with others, we are reflecting the Love that is God. It’s not personally ours.

As the Bible says, “We love God because He first loved us.” And as Jesus said: “love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbour as thyself.” (Luke 10:27) These are the two greatest commandments and they encompass everything we say or do.

Mrs. Eddy follows up on this thought by saying this “Giving doesn’t impoverish us in the service of our maker neither does withholding enrich us.” Science and Health pg. 31

I knew this all was true theoretically, but, as it so often is, I had to learn the reality of it hard way.

I had spent 3 years living and working in a care facility for the developmentally disabled. While it was rewarding in lots of ways, it was also both physically and psychologically very demanding. So much so that I finally had had enough and I resigned.

This effectively left me both jobless and homeless.

Fortunately a friend let me share his place while I got sorted out. And as a construction foreman, he also helped me get odd jobs here and there. That was a real gift.

And so while I did the odd construction clean-up job, I also applied for job after job and sent out my resume everywhere I could find something even remotely relevant in the want ads. I didn’t get one single response. Not one. It wasn’t all that long before I burned through my hard-won savings.

I actually got to the point where I was living off the vegetables in the garden I’d planted (thankfully!).

But it just kept getting worse. I still had a roof over my head thanks to my friend, but I could tell I was wearing out my welcome there – especially since he was shortly to get married. I’d have to go somewhere else. But where?

One particular day I was really feeling desperate. The construction work had fallen off so I didn’t have any quick prospects of generating income. So there I was, a college-educated guy, sitting there at the kitchen table with a 3rdnotice to pay my phone bill, my rent was due, and all I had was $6. A five and 4 quarters.

I felt like such a loser.

In tears, I reached out to God. I really reached out. I didn’t know what else to do. I just prayed: Father please show me, please please just show me what to do.

And then the oddest thought came to me:

  • Give gratitude.

Huh?

But yes, no matter what else was going on, I could always give God gratitude. I was always free to be grateful. I could always count my blessings, count the way God loves me, and give God gratitude for all that I already did have.

And so right there at that kitchen table, I started by giving gratitude for the phone company. What a blessing their service is! How much I appreciate the service they provide and how wonderful it is to be able to call anyone anywhere in the world because of all the hard work all the phone company people do to make it happen. How easy they make it to just dial a phone and I can call next door or across the country or even to other countries! And all because of their silent unseen hard work that’s blessing me and everyone else who has a phone!

And then it flashed on me that their bill was not something evil or harsh – it was a symbol of all that care and hard work and, yes, even love that they poured into their jobs every day. In fact, their “bill” was actually an opportunity for me to thank them! And to thank them in a very tangible way – by sending them their well-earned payment.

  • I was bound and determined right then and there to pay them. Monetarily as well as with heart-felt gratitude!

In fact I realized I could be grateful for every single bill that ever showed up because those bills would give me a chance to be grateful and express that gratitude tangibly by paying them for all that they do! It’s an opportunity to share love tangibly for all those services I was enjoying. It’s an opportunity to participate in the economy of Love.

And then there was a knock at the door.

It was our landlord.

And he wondered if he could hire me to paint his house.

Well, yes of course I said, I’d be glad to paint his house!

And that was the beginning of the turn-around for me. I still had challenges and it took me almost another 9 months before I landed a full-time job again. But I have never again suffered from poverty.

But this experience taught me that God will always answer our prayers no matter what our difficult circumstances.

The Bible says: And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him. (I John 4:16). And Mrs. Eddy writes: “Divine Love always has met and always will meet every human need.” SH 494:10-11

There is an “economy of Love.” Divine Love meets your human needs not by doing something to you but by awakening you to share it and live it and give it as naturally as God does.

We can always turn to God, Divine Love, to discover the Love that is the source of our very being. God is Love. And we are made in His image and likeness. We are made to reflect His Love, to naturally “give it back” as well as to pay it forward. Every day He opens ways for us to live His Love out loud.

And that kind of sharing has nothing to do with a bank account. But it does have everything to do with living the love in your heart and with sincere heart-felt gratitude.

Even for the phone company.

And in my case, especially for the phone company!

by Mark from the Christian Science Society of Encinitas, Ca.

http://christianscience92024.com/2010/06/24/232/ 

 

See What Love Has Prepared – written by Mark – Emergence International Brother/Member


See what Love has prepared

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So I’m driving my old 1968 VW camper bus with my friend Scot up to visit his grandpa on his homestead along the Wind River in Wyoming. My VW has a habit of occasionally eating its fan belt, so I always carry a couple spares. I am between jobs so I figured it’s cheaper replacing the fan belts than repairing the problem.

Scot and I’ve been driving non-stop for hours now across the vast lonely open spaces of eastern Oregon when suddenly the VW’s warning lights come on. It ate a fan belt. We pull over, open the engine hatch, I pop on another, and we’re on our way.

A half hour later the warning lights come on again! What?! Another fan belt’s gone. I know I have one more, so I fix it. But now I’m nervous. We haven’t passed a town or a gas station for a long time and the idea of being stuck without help and maybe missing out on visiting Grandpa is disconcerting to say the least.

I start thinking, “Well, if it’s right to see Grandpa, it’ll work out.” It’s Wednesday night and Scot suggests that we have our own little testimony meeting (as is common in Christian Science churches) and so we do. I’m reluctant at first, but Scot starts off and soon we’re sharing things we’re grateful to God for and my anxiety lessens dramatically.

Until the dashboard lights up again.

We’ve burned through 3 fan belts in the space of 60 miles. Plus now there are mysterious metal shavings coming off the engine pulley. Ugh. I rummage around anxiously and – find one last spare fan belt. It feels like a minor miracle.

We put it on, get back in the VW, and this time, both of us start to pray.

Praying trusts our deepest desires to God. It turns us away from the fatalistic resignation of “if it’s right, it’ll work out” kind of thinking. Knowing that God is Love and that Love is power helps us let go of fear, let’s us become still, lets us see the solution – the salvation – Divine Love has always already prepared for us.

And that’s exactly what happens to Scot and me.

Praying lets me glimpse that if God really is Love, and if God really is power, and if God is really actively present in our lives, then I can be a witness to that. I cling to this idea. You could say I “stand still” with it, because it is a solid Biblical truth. Not an “if it’s right it’ll work out” kind of thing. No. Solid. It helps me actively look and see what Love has prepared for us, right here and right now.

That’s all I need to do: just see what Divine Love has prepared for us.

What a wonderful feeling that is, to know that my job right now is just to be a witness of what Love has already prepared for us. It’s actually fun to think about – because you know it has to be good. Mrs. Eddy – whose life was full of such witnessing, wrote: “Each successive stage of experience unfolds new views of divine goodness and love.” (Science and Health p. 66:14)

And that is about to be proven.

So we drive on. And on. And in the growing twilight we see some buildings up ahead. We’re on the outskirts of Boise already! And there, just off the road is… a VW dealership!

It’s almost 9pm now and we figure we can just pull in there, sleep in our bus for the night, and wait until morning to get help. But then we notice that the back door of the building is open. But instead of being happy, I start to worry “what if no one’s there” or “what if someone is there, but they don’t want to help us.”

Then I remember, no! Let’s just see what Love has prepared for us.

So we park and walk through the open door. There are five mechanics busily putting things away and cleaning up and obviously getting ready to leave. I start to worry again about burdening them with our problems but then remember again “just to see what Love has prepared” and I hear myself asking “Can you help us?”

One of the mechanics comes over, wiping his hands off on a red shop rag, he asks us what’s the problem.

We tell him the story, how we’re on our way to visit Scot’s grandpa, how the VW ate three fan belts and now there are these metal shavings and we weren’t sure why.

He comes out to our VW bus and looks at the engine. Then quietly goes back inside and starts looking through a junk box. My mind is filling again with “what if he can’t find what we need” and then immediately I go back to that solid thought of just trusting that God is present, blessing all of us, that we actually can see what Love has prepared.

He pulls out a pulley wheel and rummages around some more and – in the midst of this big box of all kinds of junk – finds a tiny shim, the missing little piece of metal that wedges the pulley wheel correctly in place. Then he looks around under a shop bench, finds a box of fan belts and pulls out one that had come off an old Chevy. “This’ll fit” he says, then goes back out to our VW and installs everything, sliding in the missing shim, adjusting the torque on the pulley bolt correctly, and putting on the belt just right.

Then the worrying thoughts start to come back again: We hardly have any money. How much is this going to cost? How am I going to pay for this?

But I stop. And then I sincerely go back in my heart, remembering to just stop being afraid and see what Love has prepared. He looks up at us and says “That oughta do it” and I ask him how much we owe him, and he says “Nothing. Just go have a good visit with your grandpa.”

Maybe all of twenty minutes have passed and, after shaking his hand and thanking him profusely, we are back on the road to Wyoming – rejoicing to be witnesses to the wonderful kindness that Love had prepared for us.

I’ve leaned on this lesson many times since that trip. And it has made me realize how important it is not to resign my thinking to fatalism, to the “if it’s right, it’ll work out” kind of wishful thinking that has nothing to do with the way Jesus taught us to pray and rely on God. Jesus taught us to silence that kind of wishywashy fearful approach. He taught us instead actively pray, to be expectant that God’s goodness for us is present, right where we are, to leave fear behind, to stand still with Love, and then go to that place inside where we can see the salvation of the Lord – where we can feel ourselves being an active witness to what Love – not fear, or fate, or history, or circumstances – has prepared for us.

Mrs. Eddy wrote: “Immortal Mind is God, immortal good; in whom the Scripture saith ‘we live, and move, and have our being.’ This Mind, then, is not subject to growth, change, or diminution, but is the divine intelligence, or Principle, of all real being; holding man forever in the rhythmic round of unfolding bliss, as a living witness to and perpetual idea of inexhaustible good.” Misc. 82:28

So why give in to thinking “If it’s right it’ll work out” when God is already holding you in His arms? When you are already His “living witness to… inexhaustible good”?

Divine Love has great things in store for you. Don’t be afraid. Listen to the intuition that guides you to trust in God and His goodness. Silence the fear and still your thoughts, and stand focused on witnessing God, divine Love, in action.

This is seeing the salvation of the Lord. This is receiving your daily bread – your daily experience of the grace of God. This makes your life a great adventure of giving as well as receiving Love’s blessings.

Oh, and by the way, Scot and I had a great time at Grandpa’s ranch, a safe drive home, and my VW bus never ate a fan belt again.

 

by Mark from the Christian Science Society of Encinitas, Ca.

http://christianscience92024.com/2010/06/24/232/